How To Wreck Your Life: Make It All About Me

HOLD ME IN THE DARK

YOU WRECK ME

MESSAGE

A LIL CHURCH

ALL THINGS NEW

KING OF HEAVEN

ONLY KING FOREVER

Coffee Questions (to help you process the message):

1. Garry talked about the subtle shift from self-care to self-importance. What do you think that shift looks like in everyday life? Where can you see it in yourself or in our culture?

2. “What’s in it for me?” (WIIFM) can easily become the question we ask in our relationships. How does a WIIFM mindset affect relationships with a spouse, family member, friend, coworker, or even people at church?

3. Read Matthew 22:37-36. Jesus said, “Love your neighbour as yourself.” What do you think it practically looks like to give someone else the same care, attention, and concern that you naturally give yourself?

4. Read Philippians 2:3-4. Paul instructs us to “value others above yourselves” and look to the interests of others. What makes this difficult? What are some situations where putting someone else first can be especially challenging?

5. Read Philippians 2:5-8. What stood out to you the most? 

6. Garry ended with two practical questions: “Where am I demanding my way?” and “Who can I serve this week?” Which of those two questions challenges you the most–and what might it look like to actually act on it?