SUNDAY, APRIL 19, 2026
I HAVE A QUESTION: IF GOD IS LOVE, WHY ARE SOME CHRISTIANS JERKS?
~ SERVICE ORDER ~
DESPERADO
THE SCIENTIST
MESSAGE
THE LONG SURRENDER
WHO YOU SAY I AM
JESUS MESSIAH
THIS IS OUR GOD
~ QUICK UPDATES ~
ROUTE 55 HABOURFRONT WALK
On Wednesday, May 13th, Route 55 (TMP's 50+ social group) is meeting for a walk along the downtown seawall with a stop for coffee together. We'll meet up at 9:30am near the restrooms at Maffeo Sutton Park. Please let us know you'll be there so we can watch for you.
TUESDAY MEN'S GROUP
Come hang out with us for an hour every Tuesday morning from 7-8am on Zoom. Email men@themeetingplace.org to get the link. Can’t make it every week? That’s ok, join us when you can.
WOMEN'S BIBLE STUDY
We're doing a 24 week group video study on the Bible's book of Hebrews with the theme "Jesus is better". There are two options:
Wednesdays,10:00am at a home in the Rutherford area. We watch the videos together and have discussion and coffee. (Meets weekly.) -OR-
every other Thursday, 5:30pm at the McDonalds on Rutherford Rd. near Nanaimo North Town Centre. You watch the videos at home and we meet in person for discussion and coffee. (Meets every other week.) Questions? Email otterfox4@hotmail.com
TMP CARE TEAM
When you, or someone you know are in need of practical, spiritual, or emotional help, please reach out to the TMP Care Team by emailing support@themeetingplace.org or by filling out the form online.
SUFFER FROM FOMO?
Do you have a Fear Of Missing Out on what's going on at TMP? Join our email update list--it's usually only one email per week, max, and it'll help keep you "in the know" around here. Sign up here.
DONATIONS RECEIVED
* The week of April 5, 2026 - $8,563.21
* The week of April 12, 2026 - $3,445.26
* Required weekly giving to meet budget - $6,400
Our Vision: to be people who are all about unleashing God's extravagant love on this city and around the world.
Our Mission is simple: to equip people to love God and love others - everyday, everywhere.
On Wednesday, May 13th, Route 55 (TMP's 50+ social group) is meeting for a walk along the downtown seawall with a stop for coffee together. We'll meet up at 9:30am near the restrooms at Maffeo Sutton Park. Please let us know you'll be there so we can watch for you.
TUESDAY MEN'S GROUP
Come hang out with us for an hour every Tuesday morning from 7-8am on Zoom. Email men@themeetingplace.org to get the link. Can’t make it every week? That’s ok, join us when you can.
WOMEN'S BIBLE STUDY
We're doing a 24 week group video study on the Bible's book of Hebrews with the theme "Jesus is better". There are two options:
Wednesdays,10:00am at a home in the Rutherford area. We watch the videos together and have discussion and coffee. (Meets weekly.) -OR-
every other Thursday, 5:30pm at the McDonalds on Rutherford Rd. near Nanaimo North Town Centre. You watch the videos at home and we meet in person for discussion and coffee. (Meets every other week.) Questions? Email otterfox4@hotmail.com
TMP CARE TEAM
When you, or someone you know are in need of practical, spiritual, or emotional help, please reach out to the TMP Care Team by emailing support@themeetingplace.org or by filling out the form online.
SUFFER FROM FOMO?
Do you have a Fear Of Missing Out on what's going on at TMP? Join our email update list--it's usually only one email per week, max, and it'll help keep you "in the know" around here. Sign up here.
DONATIONS RECEIVED
* The week of April 5, 2026 - $8,563.21
* The week of April 12, 2026 - $3,445.26
* Required weekly giving to meet budget - $6,400
Our Vision: to be people who are all about unleashing God's extravagant love on this city and around the world.
Our Mission is simple: to equip people to love God and love others - everyday, everywhere.
~ FROM THE MESSAGE ~
Dear friends, let us continue to love one another, for love comes from God. Anyone who loves is a child of God and knows God. But anyone who does not love does not know God, for God is love. God showed how much he loved us by sending his one and only Son into the world so that we might have eternal life through him. This is real love - not that we loved God, but that he loved us and sent his Son as a sacrifice to take away our sins. - 1 John 4:7-10
So now I am giving you a new commandment: Love each other. Just as I have loved you, you should love each other. Your love for one another will prove to the world that you are my disciples. - John 13:34-35
Then he said to the crowd “If any of you wants to be my follower, you must give up your own way, take up your cross daily, and follow me.
If you try to hang on to your life, you will lose it. But if you give up your life for my sake, you will save it. - Luke 9:23-24
Live wisely among those who are not believers, and make the most of every opportunity. Let your conversation be gracious and attractive so that you will have the right response for everyone. - Colossians 4:5-6
Dear friends, let us continue to love one another, for love comes from God. Anyone who loves is a child of God and knows God. But anyone who does not love does not know God, for God is love. God showed how much he loved us by sending his one and only Son into the world so that we might have eternal life through him. This is real love - not that we loved God, but that he loved us and sent his Son as a sacrifice to take away our sins. Dear friends, since God loved us that much, we surely ought to love each other. No one has ever seen God. But if we love each other, God lives in us, and his love is brought to full expression in us. - 1 John 4:7-12
Don’t be selfish; don’t try to impress others. Be humble, thinking of others as better than yourselves. Don’t look out only for your own interests, but take an interest in others, too. - Philippians 2:1-4
So now I am giving you a new commandment: Love each other. Just as I have loved you, you should love each other. Your love for one another will prove to the world that you are my disciples. - John 13:34-35
Then he said to the crowd “If any of you wants to be my follower, you must give up your own way, take up your cross daily, and follow me.
If you try to hang on to your life, you will lose it. But if you give up your life for my sake, you will save it. - Luke 9:23-24
Live wisely among those who are not believers, and make the most of every opportunity. Let your conversation be gracious and attractive so that you will have the right response for everyone. - Colossians 4:5-6
Dear friends, let us continue to love one another, for love comes from God. Anyone who loves is a child of God and knows God. But anyone who does not love does not know God, for God is love. God showed how much he loved us by sending his one and only Son into the world so that we might have eternal life through him. This is real love - not that we loved God, but that he loved us and sent his Son as a sacrifice to take away our sins. Dear friends, since God loved us that much, we surely ought to love each other. No one has ever seen God. But if we love each other, God lives in us, and his love is brought to full expression in us. - 1 John 4:7-12
Don’t be selfish; don’t try to impress others. Be humble, thinking of others as better than yourselves. Don’t look out only for your own interests, but take an interest in others, too. - Philippians 2:1-4
~ COFFEE QUESTIONS ~
1. When was the last time you were a jerk? What happened?
2. If you’re not a Christian, how did this message affect the way you view Christians who are sometimes jerks?
3. If you are a Christian, how did this message affect the way you see yourself as a Christian that sometimes acts like a jerk?
4. If making the initial decision to follow Jesus is the short surrender, there are daily and ongoing things that are the long surrender. What’s one of those long surrender items for you?
5. If God is love, then Christians ought to be lovers (maybe not the kind of “lovers” that first comes to mind, but lovers of people). You can revisit those bible verses here:
Dear friends, let us continue to love one another, for love comes from God. Anyone who loves is a child of God and knows God. But anyone who does not love does not know God, for God is love. God showed how much he loved us by sending his one and only Son into the world so that we might have eternal life through him. This is real love - not that we loved God, but that he loved us and sent his Son as a sacrifice to take away our sins. Dear friends, since God loved us that much, we surely ought to love each other. No one has ever seen God. But if we love each other, God lives in us, and his love is brought to full expression in us. - 1 John 4:7-12
6. The challenge from this message to the Jesus-followers is: Try not to be a jerk. So how can you avoid being a jerk this week?
7. You can listen to the song “The Long Surrender” by NEEDTOBREATHE on YouTube here.
2. If you’re not a Christian, how did this message affect the way you view Christians who are sometimes jerks?
3. If you are a Christian, how did this message affect the way you see yourself as a Christian that sometimes acts like a jerk?
4. If making the initial decision to follow Jesus is the short surrender, there are daily and ongoing things that are the long surrender. What’s one of those long surrender items for you?
5. If God is love, then Christians ought to be lovers (maybe not the kind of “lovers” that first comes to mind, but lovers of people). You can revisit those bible verses here:
Dear friends, let us continue to love one another, for love comes from God. Anyone who loves is a child of God and knows God. But anyone who does not love does not know God, for God is love. God showed how much he loved us by sending his one and only Son into the world so that we might have eternal life through him. This is real love - not that we loved God, but that he loved us and sent his Son as a sacrifice to take away our sins. Dear friends, since God loved us that much, we surely ought to love each other. No one has ever seen God. But if we love each other, God lives in us, and his love is brought to full expression in us. - 1 John 4:7-12
6. The challenge from this message to the Jesus-followers is: Try not to be a jerk. So how can you avoid being a jerk this week?
7. You can listen to the song “The Long Surrender” by NEEDTOBREATHE on YouTube here.
